Too Much Love

By Jim Hagarty
2018
Reading the reactions of a lot of people to high school students briefly leaving classes to call for measures to end school shootings reminds me that an awful lot of people hate kids. They despise them. And for some reason, they have no problem publicizing their loathing of young people. What is sadder is that a lot of these haters are parents. Men and women who espouse “tough love.” In my experience, “tough love” is the first cousin to “no love.” A woman once told me, “You can love your kids too much.” Yes, I thought, as I walked away, that is the problem with the world today. Kids are getting too much love from their parents. I really wish the people who think this way would commit to staying childless. They will be happier being free of offspring and the kids they might have had will be spared a childhood where the lovin’ is measured out in miserly, tough amounts and where the kids have to jump through impossible hoops to get any at all.

Author: Jim Hagarty

I am a 72-year-old retired journalist, busy recovering from a lifelong career as an unretired journalist. This year marks a half century of my scratching out little fables about life. My interests include genealogy, humour and music. I live in a little blue shack in Canada and spend most of my time trying to stay out of trouble. I am not that good at it. I also spent years teaching journalism. Poor state of journalism today: My fault. I have a family I don't deserve, a dog that adores me, and two cars the junk yard refuses to accept. My prized possessions include my old guitar and a razor my Dad gave me when I was 14 and which I still use when I bother to shave. Oh, and my great-great-grandfather's blackthorn stick he brought from Ireland in the 1850s. I have only one opinion but it is a good one: People take too many showers.